I have spent time with wolves and they are some of the most beautiful teachers and healers. They give healing and loving energy, while still protecting their own energy. What it is to spend time with them, I can’t put into words, but they have always reminded me of the strength we all have inside of us.

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Meet the founder

My name is Tara Victoria. The idea to create You are the Wolf came out of my pain, healing, learning, and growing through my experience with abuse. The more time passed from those dark moments, the more YATW grew into something for everyone–a reminder of hope and strength for whoever needs it, where ever they may be, for whatever battle they may be facing. A reminder that we’re all carrying our own struggles and that we’re not alone in this world.

“I believe your tragedies, your losses, your sorrows, your hurt happen for you not to you. And I bless the thing that broke you down and cracked you open because the world needs you open.”

– Rebecca Campbell

You are the wolf is a reminder of strength. It’s a symbol for hope, healing, community, and love. It’s a reminder to be gentle with yourself and reflect on how far you’ve come, regardless of where you are in your life. It’s self protection and empowerment, married with the ability to love and be loved.

So wherever you are in this moment, however this found you…never forget: you are the wolf.


If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please seek help. Here is a list of resources which I will continue to add to. Remember you are worthy of so much more and you do have the strength to leave, and you are not alone.